Stepping Into The Roaring 20's...

Hi!


And just like that, another year has passed. And, with this year, the calendar steps us into the roaring Twenties, 2.0. Ten freakin' years! Years filled with everything, change, loss, hardships, growth, and blessings.

We, my friends, are on the threshold of an entirely brand new decade. One, as of yet, free of consequence, good or bad. On the threshold of a brand new starting point. The threshold of the sweet unknown.

We are perched, pen in hand, poised, ready to begin a new chapter.

All of us. Every single one.

Now, is the magical time between. We can take a beat, reflect on the year to which we are bidding goodbye, take another beat, and think about how we want to approach the days ahead.

We have choices to make.

Every year has its own set of challenges, administers its own tests of strength. We wade through, acquiring some bumps, bruises, and sometimes, scars, along the way. Through is our only option, no matter how muddy we get. We can't avoid any of it, not really. All we can do is keep moving, clearing paths as we make our way.

If 2019 was hard, and I know it was for many, now is the time to look at those hardships, take them apart, take the mystery out of them. Monsters are always less scary once you know what they look like up close, find out what gave them strength, discover their weaknesses. In doing this, you can design a very specific monster spray to make sure that that particular monster never darkens your doorstep again.

With every monster we slay, we gain wisdom and strength. Each one has something to teach us that gives us the tools we need to clear our path moving forward.

Hardships allow us to see our true selves. They allow us to grow, to stand up, to change direction, if need be.

We are perched, pen in hand, poised, ready to begin a new chapter.

Write boldly, fearlessly, for the worst thing is rarely as bad as we imagine. Write unapologetically as your true self. Write, ready for unpredictable plot twists, adjusting the story as you go. You have the power to write out poisonous characters, and write in better ones.

Look back long enough to recognize monsters from your past, but don't let your gaze get stuck in the rearview mirror.


The roaring twenties 2.0. They are going to be fabulous. How do I know? Because that's exactly how they will be written.


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Happy New Year!

I hope you will indulge me while I send a huge thank you to all who read these ramblings. Some have been reading since the beginning, others only since yesterday. To all of you, thank you.

It can be overwhelming when I allow myself to think about it.

The fact that as I write this, in this very moment, hundreds of people in 23 different countries, on 7 different continents are taking time out of their lives to read these posts will never cease to amaze me.

I am forever humbled that you take the time, and forever honoured that so many of you trust me with your stories, your truths, your heartbreaks, your joys.

Thank you is such a tiny phrase, I wish it was bigger.

Thank you.

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May you leave behind any burdens that threaten your ability to fly.
May you create days, weeks, months, where you can consistently, confidently look yourself in the eye.

May you write your next chapters allowing ample room for comic relief.
May your story be one of contentment, where tears of laughter forever outnumber tears of grief.

May you find a way to live life in a way that makes your soul smile, makes your heart sing.
May you see it's not always about how much joy you get, but how much joy you bring.

May you see it's okay to not have all the answers, all of us are just doing our best to find our way.
May you see it's okay to not be sure, keep moving, a wrong turn is just a stop along the way.


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Real Life Happens In The In Between....

Hi!


And just like that, it's time for the littles to sing their hearts out as they try their level best not to wave at their Moms, Dads, Aunties, Uncles, Grandmas, and Grandpas in the adoring crowd.

There are those who love it, those who don't, all remembering the lyrics and choreography in differing degrees, weeks of rehearsal but a faint, foggy notion hazed over by nerves and exhaustion.

And just like that, it's time.

Time to take a beat to play some board games, time away from phones, clocks, and schedules. Time to hang out, get some fresh air, then cuddle up with some steamy mugs of chocolate smothered in marshmallows, a blanket, and some old movies.

Time to share some laughs, some cookies, some hugs, and make some solid memories.


Time sweeps by quickly.

We have jobs, we have kids, we have obligations, we have responsibilities, we are surrounded by "have-to's"

Jobs change as do the chapters of life in which we live. Real-life is what happens in between the milestones.

We mark them, as we should, they are important, but they aren't what matters most.

In between the milestones and special occasions are the long conversations that lower guards enough to really let people in.

In between are the moments that sow the seeds from which inside jokes grow, and create the stories that always begin with "remember that time..."

In between are fits of the giggles that make you weep, and the heartbreaks that do the same. 

In between are the conversations your kids have about you when they don't know you can hear them, the ones that both make you smile and reflect.

In between are kindnesses, shared secrets, matching scars.

In between there are arguments and deep wounds hopefully followed by eventual apologies that are often more felt than heard.

Real Life happens in the in-between.


The time between our first steps and last breaths is fleeting.
Cherish the in-between.


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Until next time...


May you embrace the in-between, for it is filled with gold.
May you see the shine need not fade even as we grow old.


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With My Tongue Firmly Embedded In My Cheek...

Christmas on a budget....

The Holidays are expensive. Period. The gifts for teachers, bus drivers, mail carriers, blah blah blah, not to mention the presents that are supposed to measure up to the letters to Santa, the eight hopes of Hanukkah, the requests of Kwanzaa, or the exchanges that you enjoy celebrating, that have zilch to do with religion or historical tradition.

We all have our reasons to celebrate the season. It's awesome! No matter what drives yours, it generally promotes a mindset of kindness and generosity. Embrace it! Run with it!

But, with that, can come expense stress. So, with my tongue firmly embedded in my cheek, I give you the following money-saving holiday hacks!


Coming up with the perfect hors d'oeuvres for your upcoming Holiday soiree can be difficult and labour intensive, not to mention, costly. To procure said appys with minimal effort and even less money, line a cooler with tin foil, grab your roll of plastic wrap, make a trip to your nearest Costco and hit the samples. There is always an endless, grand variety, a little something for everyone. Boom.

Stuck for a gift for that person on your list who has everything? Simple. I'm sure you are aware of the recent scandal in the art community wherein someone ate a $120,000 art installation of a banana he freed from being duct-taped to a canvas. Piece of fruit + duct tape = priceless gift. Boom.

In need of some Christmas confections? Virtually every business has treats sitting out this time of year and they are absolutely expecting you to help yourself.  You are but an errands-run and a few Ziploc bags away from filling your candy dishes to the brim. Boom.


Unable to fulfill every wish on your little one's wishlist to Santa? Crafty or not, craft yourself as close to the desired gift as you can, then simply explain that Santa's elves had eaten too many cookies, and made some gifts while on a crazy sugar high. Theirs must have been part of that batch. You saw the story on the news. Boom.


Last, but certainly not least, home decor. Ahhhhh, the tree, (if that's how you roll) the garland, the mistletoe, the stockings, the sparkle, the glitter... first spend some quality time at your local dollar store, then let the kids in your life go nuts. It might look a little wonky when they are done, but that, my friends, is nothing a few glasses of wine, a couple of shots of tequila, and some skilled squinting can't cure. Boom.

You're welcome.


Disclaimer:

The above information/advice is for entertainment purposes only and not meant to be taken literally... just sayin'...



The lesson:

This time of year is supposed to be fun, don't let unrealistic expectations of perfection suck the joy out of the season.

Those who matter won't care how the tree is decorated, by whom, or what's under it. They won't care that the food isn't Insta-worthy. They won't care that your holiday may lean a bit more toward National Lampoon than Hallmark.


Those who matter just want to see you happy. Period. Boom.


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Until next time...


May your dollars stretch like the waistband of three child deep maternity underwear.
May you redefine "perfect" for it really means laugh-filled memories made and shared.

May you remember chasing the old perfect is like trying to capture a unicorn with golden wings.
May you see that those that matter, who really matter, care about you, your happiness, not things.

May you take a beat, take a breath, take a break, take a walk, take a nap, take a turn on the backyard swings.
May you know your best is always enough, you're doing awesome, you are awesome, you bring the magic, you are the magic, you, the unicorn with golden wings.


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Canadian Bathroom Graffiti...#youmatter...

Hi!

"Please do not lose hope. You Got this!"

"Have faith and be good to yourself" #youmatter

This, my friends, is an example of Canadian bathroom graffiti.

With all of the divisiveness going on in the world right now, it does the heart good to walk into a public washroom in the middle of Saskatchewan for a quick pitstop, and find this level of kindness gracing a bathroom stall. 

We get hit with the horrors of what we are capable of on a daily basis. The good things, the kindnesses, usually get buried, well behind all of the breaking news.

Breaking news. 

A term that used to refer to articles of current events that were so important they couldn't possibly wait.

Now, when you see the banner come across your screen, you know the 'breaking' means heartbreaking. It no longer means urgent, at least not most of the time. It just means someone did something soul-crushing to someone else.

If we want to see the good stuff, we have to find it ourselves. 

On social media, there are countless videos of strangers literally giving the clothes off their backs to help someone in need. 

Out and about, there are, without cameras present, doors being held, cars being pushed out of slippery situations, sidewalks being anonymously shoveled, drive through orders being paid for, treats being shared.

There are people donating clothes, food, and money to those less fortunate. 

There are people doing incredibly noble, selfless things. Donating time, blood, bone marrow, organs.

Humanity has a great capacity for extraordinary kindness. We've proven, throughout history, that our instincts tend to lean heavily toward taking care of each other as opposed to taking each other down. 

There are those out there that test that theory on a fairly regular basis. Those driven by fragile egos and greed. But, if you look back, even though they sometimes rise to the top of whatever pile they are climbing, they rarely stay there for long. There are a few exceptions, but those are cases wherein they remain unchallenged, unaccountable.

When unfettered ego and greed are the dominant characteristics of any kind of leader, teachers, coaches, clergy, politicians, it becomes a test as to how quickly humanity can right the ship. 

Apathy can not be an option.

If you came around a corner to discover someone hitting a child or kicking a puppy, would you just walk by, or would you do step in to stop it?

Racist jokes, mean-spirited gossip, exclusion, abuses of power, it's all kicking puppies. 

None of us is perfect, none of us do the right thing 100% of the time, that is one of the few things in life that is a certainty.

But, when you pay attention, when you catch yourself making those choices about walking by, #youmatter

Whether, in this story, you are the passerby, or the puppy, #youmatter.

If you look at this scenario and see yourself in the position of the kicker, it's time to take a long look in the mirror because #youmatter.

Humanity has a great capacity for extraordinary kindness. We've proven, throughout history, that our instincts tend to lean heavily toward taking care of each other as opposed to taking each other down. 

#youmatter

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May we all work hard to prove, every day, that humanity is better than what we see in the news.

May we remain openminded, fluid in our mindset, willing to grow, considering others' views.

May we never choose apathy out of fear, fear of discomfort, fear of judgment, fear of aftermath.

May we find the courage to intervene, step in, speak up, accepting the possibility of wrath.

May we show those who will follow us, this moment in history was more than vicious chatter.

May you take your place in history's pages knowing you count, your voice counts, #youmatter.

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There is still time to fill the stockings of those you love with stories! 

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Magic Is Magic

And just like that, November is gone!

The holiday gatherings have begun. Work parties, get-togethers with friends, and concerts put on by the littles that would rival any Broadway production.

My snowmen have successfully migrated from the basement and are doing well. Our grandbabies had the opportunity to participate in the "Friendsmas" at their Auntie and Uncle's house, and will be beginning their rehearsals for the concerts very soon.

Work parties are... well, work parties. They provide all kinds of opportunities, good and bad. Just remember, as you attend, everybody has a camera, and they aren't shy about using them.

For us, added into the holiday madness, are the final few of the tradeshows at which we will be selling and signing books.

Tomorrow, we head to Moose Jaw. For those of you not from here, yes that is the name of a real city. Next week, White City, also real, then Kindersley. 

Throughout the fall we've met, and continue to meet, incredible, gifted artisans who display an incredible variety of talents that produce everything from handmade hats, mittens and plush toys, to home-baked goodies of every kind you can think of, We've seen hand-tooled jewelry with mind-blowing detail, wood carvings big enough to sit on and tiny enough to fit in your dollhouse. We've had the privilege of seeing beauty framed, some painted, some put there through the eye of a lens.

Over the next little while, if you have the opportunity to attend one of these shows, the craft fairs, the tradeshows, the extravaganzas, do yourself the favour, and go. It would be hard to be disappointed in the treasures you will find. 

Now I hate to write and run, but I have to get ready for tomorrow's tradeshow, and I have some squares that need to be cut and taken to the freezer before my hubby gets home,

So go, take it all in, spread some joy, or, if you are in need of some, take yourself to places where you can bathe in it. 

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On a sadder note, our son-in-law lost his Granddad early this morning. Although he lived a long and full life, it's never easy to say good-bye to someone you love.

When you are 7, 5 and 3, it can be particularly tough. It hurts to know our grandbabies are having to deal with this depth of grief at such a young age. In their sweet innocence, they have decided to leave extra cookies out for Santa this year, with a note to ask Santa to bring one to Granddad.

Magic is magic.

Time spent with loved ones is precious. A gift, not a given.

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May you embrace the magic of the season, take it all in through the eyes of a child.

May you let it carry you through any heaviness, let it make the mayhem mild.

May you share the magic, sprinkling it generously over everyone you meet.

May the warmth this brings keep you toasty from your head to your feet.

May the magic from others find you, if you are having trouble tapping into your own.

May you see the depth and breadth of your magic are vast, yet untested and unknown.

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Make It Better...

Hi!



The Holidays are just around the corner!




Whether it's Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, wherever, however, whatever the name of your holiday, Cheers!

Personally, we celebrate Christmas, and with that comes the homemade treats that only get made at Christmas.

Tarts, pies, squares, and cookies. Familiar smells bringing back memories of when our girls were little, there to savour the remnants of batter that clung to the beater, licking the bowls, my trusty taste testers.
Now, it's my babies' babies who light up at the bottomless cookie jar, the gooey tarts, the chocolatey goodness of fudgy delights.

For me, baking, putting together traditional favourites, creating new tidbits, is relaxing.

Everyone prepares for the holidays in their own way.

It's the time of year when things can feel a bit hectic, and stressful

Try not to let it. I know it's hard. It can seem like the list of things to do between now and then multiplies while the time to do it in shrinks.

It's a time of year that can be tough for many.


Maybe a loved one has passed, maybe your family situation is less than ideal, maybe finances are tight, maybe you're just not sure if you can make it happen at all.

One step at a time, one breath at a time.

Hang in, hang on, reach out.

So, let's do each other a huge favour, and just be kind. No one gets through life without struggle. A friendly voice on a phone, a kind act, a smile. These things that cost you nothing, require precious little effort, and can make a much bigger difference than you realize. Each person you come in contact with every single day is facing something they would rather not be facing. Although we may not have the power to fix everyone's problems, let's all, at least, agree to just do what we can to not make anything worse.

With every connection, an impression is made. How we make a person feel lingers on their soul.

Make it better.


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Until next time...


May kindness drive your every encounter, leaving smiles and light in your wake.
May any struggle you are facing become smaller, more walkthroughable, with every step you take.

May you see the best holiday memories are rarely made by dollar signs wrapped in fancy bows.
May you see it's the time spent in laughter, playing games, watching old cartoon holiday shows.

May you, if this time of year pushes you to shadowed places you don't care to tread,
May you find a way to hold on, hang on, reach out, see beyond today, to the brighter days ahead.


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Make Your Soul Sing...

Hi!


Last weekend, we surprised our Mom with a party to celebrate her upcoming 80th birthday.


Under the guise of a jewelry fair, (Our mom loves her some jewelry) our niece lured her to the venue. As this was an 80th birthday, we thought better of the traditional hiding and screaming of "surprise!"

We, her six kids, four sons-in-law, three daughters-in-law, eighteen grandkids, almost all of their significant others, and eleven great-grandbabies, instead, waited in complete silence (a pretty incredible feat in and of itself).

It took a second or two for her to adjust from what she had expected to what was, in fact, happening. In true Mom form, once she began recognizing the faces that filled the room, her sense of humour always intact, "Well, where is the jewelry party?"

The rest of the day, evening, and, to be honest, into the not so early hours of the next morning, we celebrated. Celebrated Mom, of course, and just being together. The logistics of bringing everybody under the same roof can be tough when you have a big family. We tend to take full advantage when the opportunity presents itself.

Celebrations are important, and not just for the big things like weddings and big birthdays.


Celebrate.


Two very important chairs were empty at this party. That of our Dad, and that of our sister. They both have passed. Proof that time together is never a given, always a gift.

Celebrate.


Holidays, birthdays, weddings, anniversaries, new babies, game days, recitals, grads of all kinds, best efforts, lost teeth, potty training victories, learning to tie shoes, favourite movie releases.

Celebrate all of it.

The celebrations don't always have to include hall rentals, hours of travel and hilarious subterfuge, but it sure bumps up the fun factor when they do.

Sometimes, celebrations are phone calls, messages, hugs, meals, or sleepovers. Sometimes they are as simple as "I'm proud of you, you're awesome."

Families come in all kinds of shapes, are all different sizes, and, many times, go far beyond coming from the same DNA.

When you get the chance to spend time with family, whatever your definition, take it.


Life can be so chaotic, crazy busy, fraught with the white noise of running our day to day existence. The trick is to recognize the distinction between our existence and our life.

Existence is what you need to do to keep flesh and bone together. Life is what makes your soul sing.

Do yourself the favour of taking time to make your soul sing.

Manufacture some minutes for conversations, board games, cranking the tunes and dancing in the living room. Sculptor some seconds for laughing until your stomach aches, cuddling up to watch movies, and playing in the snow. Carve out some clicks of the clock to create memories, be goofy, and make cupcakes.

Celebrate.



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Until next time...


May you embrace every minute you get to spend with those that matter most.
May you celebrate everything that makes your soul sing, give a high five, make a toast.

May the white noise of life fade long enough to make some memories, have some laughs.
May you set aside time for long-ago stories, showing new eyes the black and white photographs.

May more of your precious time be spent soaking in what makes your soul sing.
May you treasure those who matter most, for time on this side is a preciously fleeting thing.





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We Have Yet To Deserve Your Sacrifice...

Hi.





It is with nothing but respect and remembrance that I write these words.



Our pomp and circumstance can't help but be dwarfed by your sacrifice.
There will never be a ceremony or moment of silence big enough to convey the depth of our gratitude.
You fought, and continue to fight for and protect, the freedoms we have the luxury of taking for granted.
Those who are wanting to discriminate can't recognize your gender or sexual orientation through the flag that drapes your casket.

In addition to pinning a poppy close to our hearts, how can we truly honour you?

I think it comes down to this.

We need to stand up for those who live in terror. Borders are but imaginary lines drawn in the sand by people who didn't know better. Humanity is bigger than that.
Those who live within our imaginary circles don't own exclusive rights to those freedoms. They should be shared by all of humanity, regardless of location, belief system, or skin tone.

We need to stand up for those who live in fear. Fear of abuse, fear of violence, fear of undeserved repercussions of imaginary wrongs.

We should fight against every notion that one group of people should have control over another. Women should not have to fight for, or defend, their right to make decisions about their own bodies. No adult should have to fight for, or defend, their right to marry. No race should have to fight for, or defend, their right to a level playing field. No one should have to fight for, or defend how they choose to, or not to, worship.

We should fight for those who have fought for us. The words struggling and veteran should never live in the same sentence with any truth.

Those who have, and continue to sacrifice should, when they come home, get to live in the world they are fighting for.


We have yet to deserve your sacrifice, to honour it properly. I'm hopeful that, in time, we will.

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To those who stand up...

May you feel our gratitude, even when, especially when, it's the most difficult to see.
May we, someday, prove our worthiness of your sacrifice, become the humanity we need to be.

May we honour you.


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Happy Halloween And Other Stuff...

Hi!


Another Halloween in the books!


My house seemed to walk the scary line pretty well. Got a few gasps and squeals from trick or treaters but didn't make anybody cry. Just the right amount of scary! Yay!


I always get such a kick out of the creativity that goes into their costumes. I had everything from a Buzz Lightyear to a stop sign. Hats off to the parents who encourage and participate!


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On a more serious note...

There is a news story that came out of Barcelona, Spain.

Five men were acquitted of rape because their unconscious, 14-year-old victim didn't fight back.


Read that again, slowly, let it sink in.


They don't consider it rape because she was unconscious.

Their definition of rape involves violence, and somehow, in that logic, treating a 14-year-old girl like a sex toy you can buy on eBay doesn't constitute violence. I don't care that she didn't end up battered and bloody, she is a CHILD, and was UNCONSCIOUS! The violation of her body, her soul, her psyche is ABSOLUTE violence.

Violence: The unlawful exercise of physical force or intimidation by the exhibition of such force.


If raping an unconscious person isn't exercising physical force, I don't know what is.


This is in Spain, but if you look at the way society as a whole, treats survivors of rape, the way it is dismissive of the damage it does, this dismissiveness stamped over and over again on the paperwork of the under prosecuted monsters that commit these life-altering acts of cruel brutality, if you look at all of it, it's a shame all of humanity carries.


Are we where we were 50 years ago? Thankfully not. Are we where we need to be? Not even close.


How do we make a change in how society sees and treats rape? We, those who live regular lives, going to our jobs, running errands, racing through the nuts and bolts of life?


I think it starts with how we raise our men. Teaching them that women aren't prey to be hunted, that resistance isn't a ploy or a turn on. Teaching them to respect women, and not just on the surface, in front of other people, where there are witnesses. Real respect. In front of their goading friends, behind closed doors.


I think it includes calling out crap behavior. If you have a friend who has an aggressive attitude toward women, in their actions or speech, speak up. If you see someone vulnerable, in a sketchy situation, help them.


I think it continues with working to change the laws. Changing the courts' attitude toward rape. Educating judges as to the very real damage this violent violation does to every aspect of a survivor's life. It changes everything. How you make decisions, how you see yourself, how you see the world as a whole.


The wounds become scars, scars may fade, but they never completely heal.


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For those living with the scars...


May you thrive beyond your survival, may the nightmares and triggers fade.
May you see you are so much more than the hollowed-out version they made.

May those who hurt you collide with Karma, and enter their own version of hell.
May you go on to have a beautiful life, seizing the sweetest revenge, living well.


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Sunrises, Sunsets, And Crocodile Clouds In The Sky...

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Sooooo, here where I live, we had our election. It went the way some wanted, and not the way others wanted. Such is life in a democracy.

The reactions have been, in a word, predictable.

There is a lot of doomsday talk of how we are all screwed, splitting up the country, a tone of speech fuelled by fear.


I am choosing to look at it this way. After this election, we have been left with a minority government. This will force co-operation. In the history of our Country, it's been when we have a minority government that the best and biggest changes have happened.

I am choosing to be optimistic. I am choosing to be hopeful.


The sun will still rise, the sun will still set, take a breath, and find the crocodile clouds in the sky.


We still live in a great country where you can go to the doctor without worrying about money. You can get mammograms, and ultrasounds, dialysis, and chemo. A country where you don't have to lose your home to save your life.


We still live in a great country where our kids don't have to suffer through active shooter drills, they don't have lead in their water, they aren't being chased from their homes by war, they can live a fearless life, laying on their backs in the grass, finding their own crocodile clouds in the sky. 


We still live in a great country where we can breathe our pristine air, swim in our countless lakes, explore our three oceanic shores, and celebrate every culture that chooses to call us home.


Are we perfect? Far from it. All you have to do is dip into social media to see that.

Fear breeds anger, anger breeds hate, hate can never be what we stand for.

We are far from perfect.

Case in point, the Noble indigenous peoples of this awesome place. A people to whom we owe every respect. A people who we can only hope will, some day, be able to forgive the heinous treatment they received at the hands of our history.

We all know what abuse can do to a single child, a single person. It breaks them. It weaves into the fabric of who they become thereafter. We did that. To all those who were living here, peacefully, before we showed up all those years ago. We continued to do it for years, for generations. We kidnapped their children and put them into institutions of abuse. The last 'school' closing in 1996.

We performed surgical cultural genocide for over 100 years. The last of the worst of it as recently as 23 years ago.

We all know what abuse can do to a single child, a single person. Imagine what it does to a century of generations of an entire culture.

"Getting over it" isn't an option.

Am I professing to have all the answers? No. But, I can do what I can do. Treat everyone with compassion, lifting others up whenever and wherever I can.

I have had the privilege of visiting schools all over this beautiful province. I have visited the schools in small towns, not-so-small towns, Hutterite colonies, cities, and indigenous communities.

This is what I know. The fairytale that all kids are playing on an even field when it comes to education is just that, a fairytale. Not all schools are created equal.

If we want our kids to do better. We need to give ALL of them the tools they need to do so. Period.

For now, the sun will still rise, the sun will still set, let's all take a breath, and find the crocodile clouds in the sky.


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Until next time....

May you, when you feel shrouded in cynicism, break free. allow yourself to see the sun.
May you give yourself permission to let the heaviness slide, grip the happy, have some fun.

May we all, in a world seemingly run by clueless clowns, keep in focus what lives closest to our hearts.
May we know we can still care deeply about the tragedies of the world without them breaking us apart.

May we all gain some perspective, no matter your situation, someone will look at your life and see a dream.
May we slip into the rosie glasses of our childhoods, for just a sec, nothing is ever as bad as it first seems.

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An Evil Traitor, Or A Complete Moron, You Pick...

Hi!


I know, more Autumn pics, but in my defense, it's pretty. The leaves are dropping at a rapid pace now, so there won't be many more. Really.


So......




In the part of the world I call home, we are days away from a federal election. This brings out all of the "They're worse than we are" speeches, big promises, and a lot of avoidance of answers to direct questions.

As interesting as our politics are right now, we can't hold a candle to the drama going on a bit south of us.

I've probably heard the phrase "Quid Pro Quo" more often in the past week than I have throughout the entirety of my life. I'm 53

The clearest definition of the phrase, so far,  was given by a Chief of staff guy named Mick. Apparently, he got his peepee slapped once he got off stage because later on, people were pissed off that cameras recorded what he said, played it back, and had the audacity to put that forth as what he said. How dare you record me at a press conference, ask me questions, and then publicize the answers.


Then. there is the scary matter of the guy in the Whitehouse making life and death military decisions on a whim one Sunday night. This, in turn, causes a shit storm of biblical proportions, with ramifications that will likely be felt for years to come.

Pull troops. check.
Pull them so quick they have to blow up their bases. check.
Roll out red carpet for Russians to take up residence in every base left. check. (videos featuring Russian soldiers goofing around in said bases are very popular)
Leave the door open for Turkey to basically extend their border like they have been wanting to do for years. check.
Leave second door open for Russia. check.
Leave back door open for Iran. check.
Guards keeping ISIS guys in prison are called to defend the border. A reboot of 'Escape from Alcatraz"  ensues. check.

Then, the guy who has just finished beating the living crap out of the smallest kid in the schoolyard wants some kind of credit for calling an ambulance.

Before you start slow dancing Pence and Pompeo around the Oval Office, you should probably look at some footage from the Syrian border, that so-called cease-fire lasted about ten minutes. 5 more dead this morning.

Then, through the chaos, by some miracle, both donkeys and elephants got together, voted and agreed, with the exception of a few, to condemn the insanity.

The Cheeto threw a tantrum. People who have served 3 or more presidents, donkeys and elephants alike, were freaked out by how he acted. That's probably not a good sign.

So to wrap up the week.

Cheeto,
You pulled protection away from your friends, so people who are not really your friends could stretch their borders. (How's that Trump Towers Turkey deal going, by the way, still a go?)
This gives Russia and Iran an in.

In doing so, a bunch of ISIS people are, once again, in the wind, free to reorganize, regroup, reboot.

In the time you were holding your breath, sitting on the money for Ukraine until they said uncle about Biden, people died. A lot of people. Moms, Dads, kids. People. Did they need to be cleaned out too?  (One of your new phrases about Kurds that's gonna follow your ass.)

Now either you know all of this, and did it anyway, which makes you an evil traitor, or you're a complete moron. You pick.

By the way, your mini-me giving a lecture on the evils of nepotism, was frickin' hilarious. Oh, and it looks like you should start shopping around for yet another 'fixer', looks like Guiliani might be keeping Cohen company soon.




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A side note. Apparently, there is some kind of counter-protest being put together by a bunch of grown people in Semi Trucks. They are protesting a 16-year-old girl who is traveling the world, trying to draw attention to what scientists are saying about climate change.

This baffles me a bit. If you are trying to make the point that the oil industry isn't the enemy of the environment, why protest against science? I guess I'm having trouble accepting this has to be an either/or situation.

I like to think that the oil industry and environmentalists will find common ground. No one's goal is to destroy nature. No one's goal is to live without heat. Start there?


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Fellow voters:

May you make your decision as it aligns with your heart.
May you align you vote with your passion, albeit finances, health care, or art.

May you not let apathy keep you from the booth, if your casting aside your right, make sure it's for a real reason.
May you understand, no matter the outcome, everything is temporary, everything has a season.

May we, once it's all over, once again be friends, not everything is politics, not everything needs to be argued to death.
May we, once it's all over, once again be friends, let's take a beat, a step back, a breath.


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A Time To Be Thankful...

                               

                                   

             


                           Hi!

    Happy Thanksgiving to all of my fellow Canucks! No matter where you live, no matter if Thanksgiving exists where you live, being grateful is always a good idea.

Gratitude looks different for everyone. What you're grateful for, how you express it, 

When I look around the globe, the war, the wildfires, the violence, it can be easy to fall into a place where it can be hard to see something to be grateful for.

The devastated people being displaced, scrambling for some semblance of safety. Their very lives being threatened by hellfire. 

When I look at all of this, my heart hurts for all of them. When I look at all of this it brings into focus the things that matter. The things for which I am most grateful.

Where I live I am free to travel wherever and whenever I wish without fear of being cut down by a rapid-fire gun, without fear of bombs dropping, without fear. I am forever grateful to those who have and continue to make that possible.

I have the means to buy and put together ingredients to bake cookies for my family. I have appliances to assist in making that happen with limited effort. I am forever grateful that I live in a place where hard work is generally rewarded.

I get to put my thoughts together in these ramblings on a regular basis. I get to express these thoughts freely without threat. I am able to receive messages, questions and opinions from all over the world, both positive and not so positive. I am grateful every day to those who read these thoughts and those who take the time to engage. 

I get to take time to smell the flowers. Yes, life is busy, life is hectic, but I live in a place where, when there is time, I get to spend it with family, taking walks in the cool autumn air, watch movies, sing karaoke, or anything else I might like to do. I am so grateful to have spare time, even if it's not a lot. I still have it.

I get to write. I get to sip a beverage while I do it, if I wish. I get to watch little faces light up and giggles spill. I get to be part of the bedtime ritual that takes place in thousands of homes on almost every continent. I get to be part of story mats in libraries and schools whether or not I'm physically there. I've been honoured by the stories of the different ways "Everyday Wishes" has hit home. I've been humbled by feedback from the readers of "Once Broken," about how, although it's fiction, it hits close, almost too close to reality for some. When I allow myself to think about it, it's easy to be overwhelmed. Probably why I don't allow it very often. 

I am so incredibly grateful. For all of it. The busy, the quiet, the hard, the easy, the good, the bad, all of it. 

I'm grateful for the hardships that taught me what I needed to know to get me here. I'm grateful for today's lessons that will lead me to where I'm meant to go. 

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Until next time...

May you find something for which to be truly grateful.

May you see it need not be big, the smallest thing to start, a warm bed, a dinner plate full.

May you, if it's not easy, look a little closer, what you see as hardship, is likely another's blessing. 

Maybe, for now, it's simply that you can be fearless in the thoughts you are expressing.

May you see, no matter how dark, how hard, how painful your life seems,

May you see that to someone else, the life you get to live, would be the life of their dreams. 

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