Friday, May 28, 2021

Who's Ready For Summer?!?!?




 

Hi!


Ahhhhh, Summer!


Soon!

Backyard campfires, wiener roasts, s'mores, trips to the lake, enjoying icy drinks while bathing in the warm sun, caressed by a soft breeze. 

There will be Grandbaby sleepovers, and time spent with family and friends that is long past due.

Our part of the world will look more familiar, feel more familiar, be more familiar.

We are the lucky ones. We can't forget that. Ever.

So many people, in so many places, can't even wrap their heads around the amount of privilege we take for granted. That we turn our backs to. 

Three squares, four walls, education, access to health care, room to dream, and the freedom to complain about any and/or all of it. 

Let's make this summer one for the ages. let's fill it with the kind of memories that reflect what we've missed most these past months. 

Let's not discard the shifts in our priority lists.

Let's not throw aside the lessons learned.

We have a chance to come out of this as a better society, all we have to do is embrace the opportunity to do so. 

Here's to the best, most epic summer ever! Cheers!


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On the flipside...

As so many of us gear up and look so forward to the long days and short nights of summer, let's not forget that there are a lot of people walking through this season with heavy hearts.

So many families will have empty chairs around the fire. Too many have been lost to this nightmare, even if not directly, loved ones robbed of proper good-byes. 

Let's not just move on like nothing happened. 

It all happened. The tragic ripples are still reverberating through the souls struggling to piece themselves back together. To pretend otherwise dishonours the memories, of those we've lost. 

Let's hold their memories close, find joy wherever and whenever we can, embracing life as we know they would want us to. 

Let's honour their memories by creating new ones we know would make them smile. 


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Until next time...


May the warm sun kiss your face, a subtle breeze caress your skin.

May you find yourself taking full, deep, breaths, loving the moment you're in.


May the love-filled thoughts of those no longer here, bring a smile, even if through tears.

May we create the kind of joyous memories that morph into epic stories, retold for years.


May we remember to be kind, keeping in mind who the real heroes have been.

May we do what we need to, do what we have to, so this doesn't happen again. 


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Saturday, May 22, 2021

Same Sky...Different Day



 

Hi!


How is it that things seem to be changing at lightning speed and a snail's pace at the same time?


Soon we will be living life as close to normal as we've been able to do for over a year, but not soon enough.


Same sky, different day.


Some days are stormy, others serene. Neither can exist without the other, both, beautiful in their own way. Sometimes it's hard to tell them apart. 

Sometimes, the day feels tumultuous, exhausting, heavy. Until that is, you wake up the next day and find out that that was just the warm-up for what the Universe had in store. A true, 'oh you thought that was bad, hold my beer" situation. 

The opposite can also be true. You have a day when everything seems to be going ok. Things fall into place with minimal effort, fostering all kinds of gratitude. Then, you awaken the next day to have an even better, more positive. awesome time between the sunsets.

If we are lucky and haven't made an enemy of Karma, the serene outnumber, outweigh, outlast the tumultuous. We don't always notice them, because they are lighter, because they are less dramatic, because they whisper instead of scream, they don't scratch as deeply into our memory. 

We have to make an effort to elevate the good days, the serene days, the peaceful days. 

Celebrate.

Soon.

Soon we will be able to celebrate, together, in person, dancing, laughing, feasting on the hugs that are finally unfettered.

Soon.

I, for one, can't wait.


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There are so many places on this planet that have citizens, people, families, kids suffering far beyond what this past year has dished out. They suffer at the hands of undeserved conflict, having violence thrust upon them through no fault of their own. 

As the powerful throw fire, the innocent are the ones being burned.

This is nothing new, just history repeating.

When will we learn? What will it take? 

One group of people trying to oppress another group of people regardless of size or reasoning never works. It can't. Why? Because all conflict fuelled by a sense, any sense of superiority is founded in falsehood. 

One group may have more firepower, more political power, more societal power, which feeds their delusion of superiority, but that doesn't make it real. The delusional continually try to force their fantasy, when they encounter resistance, they claim the conflict is the fault of the oppressed. This escalates. There are marches, there are movements, there are leaders forged in the fire. Sometimes, it escalates to the boiling point of violence.

When the smoke clears, inevitably, the chasm that divides the delusional from the oppressed shrinks just a little. The power shifts just a bit. We find that there are many more who believe we are all equal than don't. Progress, even if minute, is made.

Those who have the power will never share it easily, or willingly. They didn't seek permission to take it, they simply claimed it. They won't just relinquish it, why would they?

I think the greatest fear of any oppressor is that if power is transferred, or even shared,  they will be treated exactly the way they've treated others. 

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Until next time...


May we once again dance in the rain, together, celebrating without limits.


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Saturday, May 15, 2021

Here It Is From Where I Sit...




 


Hi!


Perspective.


Things can look huge until you take a step back.

Things look a certain way, but shift dramatically when you change the angle. 

Point of view is everything.


So here it is. I need a favour.


If you are approaching life these days with the point of view that still entertains the thinking that this virus is no big deal, that no one dies as a result of it, or have bought into the swirling myths about the vaccines, please stop spewing your crazy all over everybody else. I know that I, for one, am tired of coddling the stupidity to spare feelings. You obviously don't care about other people's feelings, why should those of us who choose to live in reality keep treading on eggshells around you.

You have had ample opportunity to embrace reality and choose not to. We are over a year into this thing. The level of ignorance at which you are willing to indulge is on you at this point. 

I've tried. I'm all about respecting opinion, but not when you keep trying to try to exchange it for fact.

The world is round, they really did land on the moon, 9/11 was not a homegrown conspiracy, climate change is real and no, humans did not hang out with dinosaurs back in the day.

Facts and opinions are not the same things. Opinions don't trump expertise. Expertise is earned through experience, education, and time, not Youtube. 

Stop causing scenes in stores and coffee shops,  The people who work there don't deserve the abuse you seem to enjoy dishing out and definitely don't get paid enough to put up with your crap. 

No shoes, no shirt, no mask, no service. Masks have no more to do with your freedom than seatbelts, get over yourself.

Soon, in spite of all your efforts to the contrary, we will once again be able to walk around maskless. Something we could have likely done months ago if you and your ilk would have just worn the damn mask the whole time. But I digress.

I guess you'll have to go back to your go-to pre-pandemic excuses to abuse people in the service industry. Don't even pretend you didn't.  

Oh, and guess what, we know you are allowed your own opinion. But, that doesn't mean we need to hear it, every minute of every friggin day. 

When you declare that nobody dies from this, you might want to take into consideration that there may be people in the room who have had people they cherish perish from exactly this. And, before you jump, no, not everyone who has died from this had other health issues, and those that did, would still be here if not for this virus. 

Just stop. Nobody outside your bubble believes the bull. You aren't convincing anybody. Time has proven the doctors right and you wrong. The proof is in the pudding, as they say. 

Find another way to get your fifteen minutes of fame.

People actually died and got very sick from this virus. Denial doesn't change that. 

The deep drop in cases of cold and flu this year is due to people wearing masks, social distancing, and washing their hands more than normal. It further proves the point that the measures we've been asked to take, work. There is nothing nefarious about it. Proof. Pudding.

The vaccines are working. And, working really well. Millions of shots have made it into arms around the world with a minute few suffering more than mild side effects. In Canada, two deaths have been linked to vaccines. To put that into perspective, this virus has killed fourteen people in the past week, and that's just in the Province of Saskatchewan. And, that's with the numbers going down. 

How many of those wouldn't be gone if all of us would have taken this more seriously. I can't help but wonder how their families would define "freedom."

Here it is from where I sit.

I watch as people I know, and some I love, dive deep, headfirst into the pool of lies. The reasons they do so baffle me. 

I watch as people I know and love die from this virus. 

I watch as people I know get sucked into the lies so far that they end up sacrificing their livelihoods in efforts of proving a point that can never be proven.

I watch as these lies convince naturally optimistic people that this world has become full of evil and deception. That they can no longer trust their local news, their family doctor, or world-renowned epidemiologists. 

I watch as baristas, grocery clerks, and others in the service industry get called every name in the book, screamed at, suffering verbal and, in some cases, physical violence under the guise of so-called freedom from some imaginary oppression. 

I watch as people throw tantrums and destroy property because they are asked to wear a mask. A mask. They are willing to smash displays, make dramatic sweeps of shelves, shatter glass, and then have the audacity to be shocked that they get arrested for acting like this. 

These are private businesses. They don't have to put up with your crap. They owe you nothing. 

Stop expecting everyone else to kiss better your self-inflicted wounds. If you don't want your business shut down by the health department, follow health guidelines. This is nothing new, there are a million health guidelines. These are temporary ones put in place because of a global pandemic. An emergent situation that required emergent measures. Temporary, which is why the rules didn't become laws. It wouldn't make sense to have permanent laws on the books pertaining to the pandemic. 

Honestly, it's like you are playing this game of pretend and get super pissed when other people won't play along.

I, for one, no longer have the patience nor the desire to placate your delusions. I'm pretty sure I'm not alone. 

If reality hasn't hit you by now, it's not going to, and there is nothing I can say or do to change your mind. My only hope, at this point, is that you quit playing in public. It's like watching bad improv where all the players obtained their comedic training at a silent monastery. 


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Until next time...


May you do what's needed to beat this thing, it's simple, just a couple of little pricks.

May you encourage those you love to do the same, make it a party, take some pics.


May the number of pricks given climb fast and far beyond every expectation. 

May we get through this final stretch at a sprint, as a world, as a nation.


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Saturday, May 8, 2021

Happy Mother's Day! 2021 Edition...




 

Hi!


Well, here we are, the second Mother's Day of this pandemic, the difference being last year, we were where the nightmare began. There have been sooooo many plot twists since then.


Now, thankfully, we find ourselves at the beginning of the end.  We are very lucky to live in a privileged part of the world where vaccines are plentiful and free. 

If people could just bring themselves to stop pretending that any of this is political, we could race to the finish line without issue.

Sadly, some, for reasons that make no sense, keep trying to make strange claims about the vaccines and the pandemic itself. All of these arguments defy logic. All of these arguments have been proven, multiple times, to be fabrications. Even though all of these arguments are based on falsehoods, maybe even because they are, they attract a very specific swath of people. Unfortunately, this swath is next to impossible to persuade. 

The pandemic doesn't care who you vote for. It never has. The vaccine doesn't care who you vote for. It never has. The vaccines have been proven in real-time to be safe, the Pandemic has proven in real-time to be anything but. 

Are there risks with the vaccines? Yup. Do they outweigh the benefits? Nope. It's not even close. Please just talk to your family doctors. You put your family's health in their hands all the time. Why wouldn't you trust them on this? 

As a Mother's day gift to your Mom, or your Mom's memory, get hit with a little prick. 

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Soooo, Mother's Day!


Nothing has filled me with more joy, more laughs, or more grey hair than motherhood. It's been worth every nauseous morning, every aching joint, every kick to the bladder, every stretch mark, every labour pain, every midnight feeding, every sleepless night, every planning of every meal, every heartache, every eye roll, every everything. 

It's been a journey full of snuggles, giggles, tears, pride, and awe-filled growing pains. It's been a journey of teaching the beauty of using your powers for good and not evil, a journey of helping to build self-worth, and fierce independence. 

It's a journey that is far from over. 

As I get to witness my daughters walk through life as these incredible, kind, empathetic, strong, smart, independent, beautiful women, my only wish is that they are as proud of themselves as I am of them. As I get to witness them be Aunties and Moms, I can't help but be in awe of who they are, and continue to become. 

Life has handed each of them incredible challenges. They have had to deal with loss and trauma that, as their Mom, I wish I could have spared them. Resilience, strength, and resourcefulness have become second nature to them. Good qualities to develop, I just wish they could have been obtained without such deeply, painful lessons.  

Being a Mom has been, and always will be the best part of who I am. My daughters are proof that we don't have to be perfect Moms to raise incredible people. 


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Until next time...


May you connect with your Mom on this, her special day, whether in person or in spirit.

May you know you are the reason she breathes, every single day, feel it, hear it.


May you, if your Mom no longer walks this earth, know her love for you never fades.

May you know she watches over you, like she always did, in every single way.


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Charlie is a soccer mom, leading the soccer mom's existence. Her life is filled with running to practices for her two kids, giving voice lessons, and, along with her husband Russ, getting through the craziness that is life, where family is everything. This is until their world was upended with an accident caused by her addict brother. An accident that led her daughter to a dim abyss, teetering on the threshold of death's door. This one moment in time pulls Charlie down a dark path littered with people and situations she would never find the carpool lane.
When you test the limits of what a mom will do for her kids, you will find out one simple thing, there are none.

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